Love one another and you will be happy. It’s as simple and
as difficult as that. – Michael Leunig
With what ever I have seen and experienced in life , I have
learned that circumstances don’t have to define a relationship and that love
grows even in the darkest places and at most odd situations .
For me , love can even be when we fight together . We know
how to disagree with each other without causing irreparable damage to the other
person. In other words you don't threaten to breakup or walk out just to get
your way.
Its also about feeling safe , ie "a soft place to
fall". If you can't feel safe to be
you and to express yourself in your relationship, you're probably not feeling
true love. I am not sure what and which act can nurture love .
Most important , accept each other as you are. Is there any
need to judge the person you're with and cant see them as a unique individual with
their own characteristics . I seriously doubt , when to love when whole time
goes in judgment .
There is big question mark on the whole act of love and
affection and lack of trust as if someone has done a crime ...its painful .
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