Law of Life

What Swami Vivekananda says about law of life .
He has summed up in 15 points as below

1. Love Is The Law Of Life: All love is expansion, all selfishness is contraction. Love is therefore the only law of life. He who loves lives, he who is selfish is dying. Therefore, love for love's sake, because it is law of life, just as you breathe to live.

2. It's Your Outlook That Matters: It is our own mental attitude, which makes the world what it is for us. Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. The whole world is in our own minds. Learn to see things in the proper light.

3. Life is Beautiful: First, believe in this world - that there is meaning behind everything. Everything in the world is good, is holy and beautiful. If you see something evil, think that you do not understand it in the right light. Throw the burden on yourselves!

4. It's The Way You Feel: Feel like Christ and you will be a Christ; feel like Buddha and you will be a Buddha. It is feeling that is the life, the strength, the vitality, without which no amount of intellectual activity can reach God.

5. Set Yourself Free: The moment I have realised God sitting in the temple of every human body, the moment I stand in reverence before every human being and see God in him - that moment I am free from bondage, everything that binds vanishes, and I am free.

6. Don't Play The Blame Game: Condemn none: if you can stretch out a helping hand, do so. If you cannot, fold your hands, bless your brothers, and let them go their own way.

7. Help Others: If money helps a man to do good to others, it is of some value; but if not, it is simply a mass of evil, and the sooner it is got rid of, the better.

8. Uphold Your Ideals: Our duty is to encourage every one in his struggle to live up to his own highest idea, and strive at the same time to make the ideal as near as possible to the Truth.

9. Listen To Your Soul: You have to grow from the inside out. None can teach you, none can make you spiritual. There is no other teacher but your own soul.

10. Be Yourself: The greatest religion is to be true to your own nature. Have faith in yourselves!

11. Nothing Is Impossible: Never think there is anything impossible for the soul. It is the greatest heresy to think so. If there is sin, this is the only sin - to say that you are weak, or others are weak.

12. You Have The Power: All the powers in the universe are already ours. It is we who have put our hands before our eyes and cry that it is dark.

13. Learn Everyday: The goal of mankind is knowledge... now this knowledge is inherent in man. No knowledge comes from outside: it is all inside. What we say a man 'knows', should, in strict psychological language, be what he 'discovers' or 'unveils'; what man 'learns' is really what he discovers by taking the cover off his own soul, which is a mine of infinite knowledge.

14. Be Truthful: Everything can be sacrificed for truth, but truth cannot be sacrificed for anything.

15. Think Different: All differences in this world are of degree, and not of kind, because oneness is the secret of everything.

Loneliness

Extract from how its there on wikipedia.

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Loneliness is a complex and usually unpleasant emotional response to isolation. Loneliness typically includes anxious feelings about a lack of connectedness or communality with other beings, both in the present and extending into the future. As such, loneliness can be felt even when surrounded by other people. The causes of loneliness are varied and include social, mental, emotional, and spiritual factors.

One  can experience loneliness for many reasons and many life events may cause it, like the lack of friendship relations during childhood and adolescence, or the physical absence of meaningful people around a person."

I am growing ????

I am growing , how can that be verified . Growing money , bank balance , promotion , bungalow , car etc etc  etc .

Does it anyway prove that I are growing . And the whole life goes in planning .

One fine day , sit and analyze , have we lost the charm of life in this whole planning exercise ???????

For a matter of 1000 Rs , we plan for a day . Is life so cheap . 

WHAT HAVE I DONE WITH MY LIFE

 

I am tired of this discussion and feel down when money becomes more important that living beings .

I have never seen a person like my mother , complete faith on divine , resulting in each day and each moment of lively life . She was so pure at heart, with 0 calculation .

May be that was also one of the reason why she left me in just 1 hr , from the moment she decided to leave me alone .By the time I could have realized ,planned , executed ,  she was out of my reach .

I always wanted to live a life based on PRESENT  , NOW  , THIS MOMENT  , least to plan , least on calculation . But somehow people around me think otherwise .

May be they are right ...don’t know .

Giving Birth

Creation is in the hand of god . When you create , you somehow help divine is achieving and pursuing his plan .

Not every human being feels the need to do so , but if you ask me personally , I feel it to be a part of the absolute and mandatory for one to be complete .

Having children isn’t just about making sure that your family name exists in this universe , but  connecting to this spiritual force that has the potential to open your heart to the universal and unconditional love that is piousness.

 Not everyone who has a child experiences it as this outer space force, and not everyone who doesn’t pursues understand  the dynamism of the creation.

But at the same time, if you have a baby, and you are a mother, that being will forever be on your mind and in your heart. Its almost obvious on how  much you love and think about them, because you will never have your own priority again. 

Your child will always be with you, and inside you.

Birthday of my daughter

Yesterday was my younger sister's birthday . She is my daugher now as i did Her Kanya daan . I knew she would be down , remembering maa . Went to her place and she was so excited seeing me . I feel blessed to have her , so pure at soul and still a cute little bacchi .

Since we all including her hubby , kid were sitting in the same room , i just followed her to the kitchen to put back the plate . She couldn’t stopped herself and tightly hugged me and was down remembering Maa , who always used to tell bauji " mera baccha ka birthday hai , aap isko bahar khila ker le aaiye “

I didn’t had words to comfort or justify .

I always feel she has been handed over to me by Maa .