Happy Birthday Omi

28th Sept was Omi's birthday , my nephew.

He completed 5 years .I have seen him growing and his love for me is something I enjoy the most .

today as well I was there at 2 PM IST , although I was late , he was impatiently waiting for me . Also recently he has started giving respect to me :) , so now I am termed aap and also mamajee .

I feel so happy for my sister as the most precious thing for her is her Omi now . Her excitement , her happiness and her love for him is very much visible .

No wonder she hate me, after all I do everything to spoil Omi fully. 

"As you grow older, you’ll let go of your mischievous days and innocent ways. But please don’t let go of your cuteness, which gives me nothing but happiness. Happy birthday Omi."

When they don't care about Your feelings

Its really a pure emotional drain out when you know the person in front of you doesn’t care for your feelings. But it happens in life and some point in time, you have to take a final call. It’s difficult, but not impossible. One of the approach can be forgiveness. Other is detachment. If they have hurt you in the past and continue to hurt you, chances are you'll react only because you have not forgiven them. Maybe they have done something quite severe; maybe they hurt you really immoral. You ought to forgive them for your own good, not theirs. By forgiving them, you'll feel a lot lighter.

If the above doesn’t work , detachment is the last resort . Chances are you have enough on your plate without having to deal with the pain. If a person clearly does not care about you, it will help you a lot if you let them go, detach yourself. There are a lot of other people who will accept you, respect you, care about you for who you are. If you're the one getting hurt, its time for you to come out now . Forgive, and let go.