Monday, 29 June 2009

Fun Of Failure

In 1914 Thomas Edison's factory in West Orange, New Jersey, was virtually destroyed by fire. Although the damage exceeded $2 million, the buildings were insured for only $238,000 because they were made of concrete and were thought to be fireproof. Much of Edison's life work went up in smoke and flames that December night. At the height of the fire, Edison's 24-year-old son, Charles, searched frantically for his father. He finally found him, calmly watching the fire, his face glowing in the reflection, his white hair blowing in the wind.
"My heart ached for him," said Charles. "He was 67 — no longer a young man — and everything was going up in flames. When he saw me, he shouted, "Charles, where's your mother?" When I told him I didn't know, he said, 'Find her. Bring her here. She will never see anything like this as long as she lives.'"
The next morning, Edison looked at the ruins and said, "There is great value in disaster. All our mistakes are burned up. Thank God we can start anew."
Three weeks after the fire, Edison managed to deliver the first phonograph.

Edison could not conceive of any experiment as a flop. As Israel puts it, "He saw every failure as a success, because it channeled his thinking in a more fruitful direction." Israel thinks that Edison may have learned this attitude from his enterprising father, who was not afraid to take risks and never became undone when a business venture crumbled. Sam Edison would simply brush himself off and embark on a new moneymaking scheme, usually managing to shield the family from financial hardship. Israel says, "This sent a very positive message to his son--that it's okay to fail--and may explain why he rarely got discouraged if an experiment didn't work out." In addition to teaching him what wouldn't work, Israel says, failed experiments taught him the much more valuable lesson of what would work--albeit in a different context.

Why God Created Maa

Once upon a time there was a child ready to be born. So one
day he asked God, “How am I going to live on earth being so
small and helpless?”
God replied, “Among the many angels, I chose one for you. She
will be waiting for you and will take care of you.”
“But tell me, here in Heaven, I don't do anything else but sing
and smile, that's enough for me to be happy.”
“Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you every
day. And you will feel your angel's love and be happy.”
“And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk
to me, if I don't know the language that men talk?”
“Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words
you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your
angel will teach you how to speak.”
“And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?”
“Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you
how to pray.”
“I've heard that on earth there are bad men. Who will protect
me?”
“Your angel will defend you even if it means risking her life.”
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices
from earth could already be heard, and the child in a hurry
asked softly:
“Oh God, if I am about to leave now, please tell me my angel's
name.”
“Your angel's name is of no importance, you will call your angel:
Mommy.”
God could not be everywhere, so he made mothers.

Thursday, 25 June 2009

Expertise

Its important in our professional area to have diversified knowledge as we live in a much insecure world. Like a person who is employed in Govt. service, and has a secure job, we live in everyday uncertainty.
In situation like now, we are more prawn to losing jobs . And in these times , people who have diversified knowledge only survives .Let me explain with a example .
There are 2 persons with same experience level . One has worked on almost assembly line job , but is expert in what he does.
The other guy has vast knowledge and has been associated with multiple activities. Although his level of expertise is less then the 1st one , but he can handle broader area of work with satisfactory performance.
In today’s situation, I feel the 2nd guy is more suitable as he can handle a broad area of work.
It now depends on us where we want to be like the 1st person or the second. Being a 2nd person definitely means that we have to take initiatives and may be need to stretch more than the 1st guy.
I feel since for us its very difficult to risk up by walking on the stairs , why not take a lift and reach on the top much faster and without hampering other's growth.
“May be this is the right time to decide what we really want in life”

Friday, 19 June 2009

MAA

Main Kabhi Batlata Nahin
Par Andhere Se Darta Hoon Main Maa
Yun To Main,Dikhlata Nahin
Teri Parwaah Karta Hoon Main Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata, Hain Na Maa

Bheed Mein Yun Na Chodo Mujhe

Ghar Laut Ke Bhi Aa Naa Paoon Maa
Bhej Na Itna Door Mujkko Tu
Yaad Bhi Tujhko Aa Naa Paoon Maa
Kya Itna Bura Hoon Main Maa
Kya Itna Bura Meri Maa


Jab Bhi Kabhi Papa Mujhe
Jo Zor Se Jhoola Jhulate Hain Maa
Meri Nazar Dhoondhe Tujhe
Sochu Yahi Tu Aa Ke Thaamegi Maa

Unse Main Yeh Kehta Nahin
Par Main Seham Jaata Hoon Maa
Chehre Pe Aana Deta Nahin
Dil Hi Dil Mein Ghabraata Hoon Maa
Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Hai Naa Maa
Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Meri Maa


Monday, 15 June 2009

Accountable Delegation


Faith again plays a major role in team building. I may be better then 3 person, but I know I cant be at all the 3 places at the same time. So delegation becomes necessary.
Delegation multiplies productivity. Now the same 3 work can be done by 3 different person at the same time, which also helps in sticking to the deadline.
Team members can be groomed only through accountable responsibility . This also brings consequences, which may be favorable or unfavorable, but that’s the part of Growth.
If the member is not adequately skilled, then train them, but if after repeated support, its not working out , the best way would be to think for alternative resource.
Accountability assures that the performs get rewarded and the nonperformers are identified and corrected.
The conclusive is that notice the performers and help them to improve further in the organization. I know people are created only through delegation of accountable work.
"What cannot be measured, cannot be monitored"

Saturday, 13 June 2009

Positive Dissatisfaction


It sounds absurd, but dissatisfaction can be a motivating factor for growth. It should be a positive dissatisfaction.
One has to be dissatisfied with oneself, not with others, other wise the impact would be almost reverse.
I feel one should definitely benchmark one's expectation with dissatisfaction. This would help in finding the GAP between where we are and where we want to reach, and thus help us fill the gap to achieve the same.
But above all, try to be "Happy". The charm of life is in being Happy. So even when there is positive dissatisfaction, we have to be Happy.
So the conclusion is to be "happily dissatisfied" which would definitively trigger growth.
It works friend, as we all know that one thing which is constant is "CHANGE" . Then why stop growing ?????

Thursday, 11 June 2009

Attack on Rising Indians


The recent racist attacks may be new , but this simply indicates that the world is a bit concerned about the rise of Indians across the globe.
I don’t feel there is any area which is untouched by the Indians.
This also means that there is nothing we cant do , may be a labor job or a highly skilled job, we are present everywhere.This is not at all a good sign and the world need to understand that we have made a presence across the globe only because of hard work and intelligence .
Being a open world now, if the law of the country permits, a person should be allowed to live without fear .
This has much to do with the recent recession which has taken thousands of livelihood.
But they have to understand that the situation is not because of us, we are equally affected.
The best way out would be to start a inward thought process and see if value addition on skill can make some difference or not.
These attacks wont solve any purpose , it would simply increase the restlessness around the globe.
My suggestion would be :
"Be simple, be quite , do your work as well as you can --- and the rest will be taken care by the divine"