Dependency

For me , few things are too important . When ever I sit and analyze if all is good with me and I do have a reason to be alive ,I just remember my niece , Kikki and Arya . Whenever I call or meet them , the 1st line from them is
 " I love you mama ".
It gives me reason to be alive as there is something which makes at least these 2 little angles happy . Kikki is 12 and Arya is 3 years old . And I know very well that the love and affection from them is so pure and selfless .

Lakh duniya kahe

Lakh duniya kahe 'tum nahi ho'
Tum yahin ho, Tum yahin ho
Lakh duniya kahe 'tum nahi ho'
Tum yahin ho, Tum yahin ho

Meri har soch me, meri har baat me
Mere ehsaas me, mere jazbaat me
Tum hi tum ho
Tum har kahin ho

Tumne chhoda hai kab saath mera
Thaame ho aaj bhi hath mera
Koi manzil koi rehguzar ho
Aaj bhi tum mere humsafar ho
Jaaun chaahe jahaan tum wahin ho

Khushboo banke hawaaon me tum ho
Rang banke fizaaon me tum ho
Koi gaaye koi saans goonje
Sab sureeli sadaaon mein tum ho
Tumko har roop me dil hai pehchanta
Log hai bekhabar par dil hai jaanta
Tu mere paas ho, dilnashin ho

Define MOTHER …..“MAA”

Because of the complexity and differences of a mother's social, cultural, and religious definitions and roles, it is challenging to specify a universally acceptable definition for the term.

Web definition

A mother is a woman who has raised a child, given birth to a child, and/or supplied the egg which in union with a sperm grew into a child. The definition can also be extended to non-human animals and may then also include being the animal that donated a body cell which has resulted in a clone.

To my surprise , the definition has no word where there is any expectation of result …its only about giving back .

So true and real ….. its important to preserve and feel blessed about having a mother .

Emotion is Precious

I believe , the emotional connection between a couple acts as a bridge connecting two, distinct lives.

When this connection is broken , its so difficult to reach the other side .

Over time, if this emotion is not handled well , you move farther and farther away from your partner. You may be unsure how you reached this point. You may question if you have the ability, or even the desire, to make the long trek back. If you knew your partner was waiting eagerly for you on the other side, you might feel more motivated. But the nature of emotional distance can make you afraid of the reception you might or might not receive.

Best approach would be to identity and handle this well ahead on time .

Emotional Fool

It is the mind which creates the world around us, and even though we stand side by side in the same meadow, my eyes will never see what is beheld by yours, my heart will never stir to the emotions with which yours is touched.

So is being emotional ...a foolish act or thought

Hmmm

Being emotional means that I am showing I truly care about something deep down. It means that I have put value into that experience and some part of it affected me greatly.

For me few things have always been emotional and when it gets touched, its difficult for me to control.

Writing on this page is one way to let it come out . But I do agree that one has to control his/her emotion to lead a happy life , this space doesn’t sees the way you do ....may be its good  .