Secret of A Happy Married life

Few days back , was having early morning team with papa . In the background , I could hear bhajan as normal and papa was reading newspaper . Out of curiosity I asked a question from him that the way he has lived his married life , why i am not able to see it in today’s world . I was with them and the way maa papa have lived life , it was awesome…completely attached  .

Papa answered by question in 3 words and I was moved to see that it was completely true . This might also be his secret of living a happy and fulfilling married life .

He said, there are 3 things , the absence of which is basically stopping someone from a happy married life .

And those are

•  Patience
• Excitement for being together
• Few questions towards life  

He is wonderful and an inspiring person to be with , I feel blessed to be part of him . At last he added one line which I have never heard from him before

“ If I needed someone in my life , it was always Renujee ( my mother’s name ) “

You Don't Bring Me Flowers Anymore

You don't bring me flowers
You don't sing me love songs
You hardly talk to me anymore
When you come through the door
At the end of the day

I remember when
You couldn't wait to love me
Used to hate to leave me
Now after lovin' me late at night
When it's good for you
And you're feelin' alright
Well you just roll over
And turn out the light
And you don't bring me flowers anymore

It used to be so natural
To talk about forever
But "used to be's" don't count anymore
They just lay on the floor
'Til we sweep them away

And baby, I remember
All the things you taught me
I learned how to laugh
And I learned how to cry
Well I leared how to love
Even learned how to lie
You'd think I could learn
How to tell you goodbye
'Cause you don't bring me flowers anymore

Song By : Barbra Streisand

Ganga

The Story of God on Nat Geo . Wonderful series , just few lines from one of the episode .

Our Holi Ganga is the mother as she gives birth to everything, all life on earth . This river came from heaven through lord shiva few hair knot , may be from the milky way . Milky way  actually is the reflection of the water which is still beyond . Scientist have dated universe to about 14 billion years of its creation. As far as Hindus are concerned , they don’t believe in one creation , they believe in cycle of creation and the primeval of creation can be as back as 8.6 billion years . Actually this creation myth is very difficult to comprehend because we say that Brahma has created the universe , but then who created the Brahma .

They say that the sages , when they were in trans , they got that revelation,  that how the creation happened , but since its in that level of conciseness , beyond the realization of the commoners like you and me .

So its believed , its beyond us .

The candle or diya which we lit is actually the reflection of our soul , the living god in us . And so when we put on in a leaf plat and just let it go in the holi Ganga , it means …..Maa take my soul to the direction where you want to take it .

Wonderful and divine …life would have been meaningless without revelation